I’m a straight man. been meeting girls on various meetup/dating apps (first meetme, then tinder and okcupid) for around five years now, on and off; started when I was an 18 year old virgin who just got a car and was able to meet girls. I’m now 25 and have hooked up with around 15 girls, much more if you count things besides penetrative sex; took a break when I was in a four year relationship and went right back into it when we separated. 15 really isn’t much as far as BPD is concerned, but that’s only because girls don’t seem to want me; I’m an okay looking dude but my BPD symptoms are like kryptonite to most women, even ones with copious mental health problems of their own.