Thanks! I know it will sound silly, but around 17 hours of no reply from some. Some have not replied to me since mid-December (not super close friends). Close friends mostly a few days ago. We're young, early 20s, so texting is quite important, and I feel it's easy to tell if you're being ghosted.

I know I'm likely overreacting, but these friends always reply immediately and have in the past ignored people because they've been "annoying." I also have ADHD, so without realising it, I can probably be annoying. I wish I knew when, but alas, I do not!

My boyfriend has helped me and told me I need to focus so hard on my own wellbeing that I don't care what others think, but it's hard to adapt that. I've been reading self-help books to fix this!

And thank you, I might wait until the day of the event and if they don't reply. I won't go, but I'll go to the gym instead (usual hobby).

Again, I really appreciate your kindness and help!! Good karma will come to you :)