I didn’t read your other post, but I wanted to share my thoughts. What I have to say is generic and applies to a broader audience and circumstances. Here we go.
Nobody misses anybody, people miss how people made them feel. Relationships are usually done blindfolded, you ignore who they are as a person and focus on how you made each other feel. Once a person starts to realize what kind of person that person actually is, that’s when they cut the relationship off. Here’s the kicker, it was her that ended it. The person that gets dumped wasn’t paying attention to what was on the other side of that blindfold, they were too focused on the crazy feelings love has to offer. The more you ignore the other side the more hurt you feel when the relationship ends. Life moves on though, and sure she might enjoy things about you, but if it doesn’t work for one person then it doesn’t work at all. A lot of people expect that their feelings should be inferior and the relationship should continue because “I love you,” when those people are actually shitty because they don’t consider the other person as an actual person. That’s where the expression “if you love her, let her go” comes from. When a failed relationship drags on, it’s because one doesn’t want to hurt the other and in the end it causes more damage. Since it ended, it ended for a reason and you have no say in it. She’s saying this stuff to lessen the hurt you feel because you’re being selfish. She doesn’t owe you anything. What needs to happen is accept the fact that both of you felt what you felt for one another, and you need to accept that those feelings didn’t last for her. If you respect those feelings then you two will have a mutual respect for one another forever. If emotional manipulation for ones gain continues, then it’s unhealthy. You two will continue to learn who the other person actually is and if you can compromise with that, because that’s what love is; compromise. If any relationship drags on in an unhealthy way, then you’ll become somebody you’re not.
I opened up a rabbit hole within my own personal philosophy to write this and I could go on forever. I started strong and by the end I know I was rambling, so I hope it makes sense the whole way through. The key take away from this is to learn discipline on how you approach relationships. You need to grow from these things so if and probably when it happens again, you can look at it in a way that will help you accept why it couldn’t work out. This relationship ended on a good and reasonable note and that should be appreciated.