My sister got drunk one night and talked about how her boyfriend was intimidating and punched holes in her apartment. My older brother and I payed him a visit. After I shoved his face in the hole he created i flipped and had my brother pull me off. The neighbors called police, but we walked him to his car and said never to come near my sister again. The police called my phone and asked what happened. I asked if my sister was okay, they said yes and i hung up. That was the end of that. I told her that is the one and only time I would do that for her, as that could of ruined my life. Good for you seeing that bullshit and getting away. You will find a nice guy.