I think it's highly unlikely that he did this through chat. The only way i can think of him getting your info through the sony network is if he is sniffing packets with something like wireshark and capturing your internet traffic to get your ip address, then doing some kind of DoS attack. He could have logged into your router and closed all of your ports, which is an easy fix, but that's unlikely.
If he is in fact the culprit, then he is either really bright, or really stupid. If he did this to you on his own account then you can contact sony to report the issue, as they're likely to be held partially accountable in this circumstance given it happened on their network. They should have his billing info and all of that. However, if he is using a VPN proxy, or TOR, encryption, and a hacked sony account, then there isn't much you can do beyond getting your router running again.
Your modem and router should at least be receiving power, and if not, plug em in! He couldn't have affected power sources. If router connection still doesn't work, then try connecting directly to your router with an ethernet cable. If none of that helps then call your provider.
You have a few other options too.
Disclaimer: be careful about how you use these tools. They're generally used for network engineering, and pentesting - improper use (using some tools on a network you're not authorized to) can get you into some trouble if you're not careful. just stick to your own network.