I'm 16M on the spectrum and throwing away his shit isn't going to make things better, for me it's mostly problems with getting over stuff and worrying about small things, when I was like seven I "Stole" like a 1dollar toy from a classmate and the guilt absolutly consumed me, I couldn't sleep I worried about being a shitty person, for like 2 years over some stupid ass you so say if someone were to throw away my Card collection I worked on for years and cared deeply for I would probably be emotionally devastated and go through An unnessacary amount of mental torture becouse of it. This became less of a problem when I grew older, at14 it wouldn't be as bad but it would definitie feel like a bigger deal than it is I understand this might be hard to grasp for "normal" people but it's important to have caretakers who actually give a shit. I was never severly punished for anything, partly cuz I was a fairly obiedent kid but also becouse parents took the effort to read on the subject and provided me with the help I needed. I only Found out I'm on the spectrum 1.5 years ago and I still have trouble accepting I have it, I kinda hate myself becouse of it but up until this Point I Came out alright. If you want more info on how someone on the spectrum Sees things feel free to PM me