(I didn't read everything you wrote.)
From some of the stuff you linked to in that thread (not wrote there), you seem very extreme to me. I would not consider you a moderate.
For example:
There is growing push back to this. But i question the traditionalist women who are pushing back. NEVER DATE OR MARRY ARE TRADCON WOMAN. Feminism in one sense did free men; it freed them from traditionalist notions. it didn't break them but it freed them enough to start to say fuck you you can support your self. This is snow balling. tradcons absolutely fall in to the category of seeing men as tools. And i wouldn't touch a RPW with /u/gaylubeoil 's dick.
No they are women who seek to parasite of a man who they deem fit after they get preggers and will try to be a SAHM. fuck that noise; get a job. If i made a million a year i would still expect any woman i am with to support her self. Its a shit test i employee. it works buetifully
I think I read the posts quoted above before when I was reading this sub (PPD), and my reaction back then was maybe something like revulsion?
Some of the more extreme red pillers, like the "women are sub-human, no girls allowed in our communities, women's freedom should be restricted" type are scary, but the feeling is more of hurt, fear of being excluded, having my freedom restricted, and not being taken seriously. When I read the stuff you wrote, I think the reaction is more like well if that's how he thinks he doesn't exist to me. Although I suppose if many men thought like you and I were single your view would be scary too.
I would say the male role as a protector and provider is in some ways biological, after all men can't get pregnant. You seem not to have those instincts towards women?
Also, do you want other men to stop being providers and protectors too, rather than it just being a personal choice? If so, that makes you that much more extreme. I think a poster in that thread accuses you of being vindictive (https://np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/3f65mj/for_some_reason_this_is_what_terpers_thing/ctlzgtl), I didn't read enough to see if that accusation is justified, but maybe you can clarify here if you want men in general to stop providing for and protecting women.