You really need to look at your advice. You’re telling this woman that she should hide her feelings from her husband rather than have a respectful, honest and open conversation. That is a TERRIBLE idea and insulting to her husband. He is also not a mind reader, so the only way he has of knowing how she feels is if she tells him. If their marriage is so bad that it’s necessary for her to not tell her husband about problems and the reason behind them so it doesn’t cause a rift, then they probably either need far more help than either their priest or this forum can help with, or it won’t last. Advice like this makes me want to use RPW less and less.