Daily Vents and Successes Thread

I'm conflicted. One year ago I couldn't talk with much people cause I was really shy. I wouldn't go to parties and I wouldn't talk in groups or do things that were out of my comfort zone. Over this last year I've improved a lot. I go to parties, hang out with friends, I'm a lot more talkative. People used to tell me that I was shy and now they tell me I'm the complete opposite. I'm usually the one who talks when the room is silent and I always try to engage in conversations.

My problem is simple: I can't date. I have no problem talking with girls, I make them laugh, I'm comfortable around them. I even vibe better with girls than with boys but I still can't get a girl. I feel like they think I'm not "dating material" or something. I've been told multiple times that I'm cute, but not in handsome way, in a way like you'd tell a child.

I'm not ugly, at worst I'm average. I live alone and work, have a car, I dress decently and I'm very clean.

I try to stay positive. I'm 22 and I've never been in a serious relationship with a girl.

Any tips?

/r/dating_advice Thread