Honestly as a dude I struggle with this everyday. As indian guy I need to be in crazy good shape, tall, perfectly groomed, and very charismatic just for a woman to see me the same as she sees a average white dude. I'm not a woman, but I'd imagine it's a similar experience. It must not be easy seeing every dude lust after the white blonde chick.

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I'm personally not one to live in delusion. I like to accept the truth, even it is harsh. The truth is white people will always be seen as more attractive. But it's not because your inferior in anyway! It's simply the way we are portrayed in media. People heavily underestimate the influence of hollywood. It shapes so much of our society.