hyperbole

It's not hyberbole if you are calling us a bunch of special snowflakes that need kid gloves. That's a pretty straightforward insult. So don't back-pedal on your insult and try to shift blame towards me. You said it, accept it.

And yeah, I'd keep it. WTF am I going to do? Ship it back to you from Australia at my own expense? Try to consider that the buyer might have had to get it from another outlet because you were unable to deliver. So now they have 2 copies and don't need the other. They don't want to pay for an unnecessary 2nd copy and they don't want to deal with the cost to return it. Not to mention the continued hassle of dealing with a seller that they already don't trust. You only considered the option of taking a payment from the buyer, not having to return it. That would be out of their own pocket to do so. I think you were lucky that they sent you anything at all. You think the buyer is obligated to refund you $90? They should give you $30 for 3 month shipping? They shouldn't have to pay for that. So if you got half, that's either $30 or $45 for you. Their cost to return it would have been about the same as your cost ($30), So deduct the cost they would have had to pay for return shipping from the original item cost ($60) and that's $30. So you got exactly what you deserved and here you are bitching about it like you got cheated.

You seem to be a very aggressive person. The second someone calls you out for being rude you go-off on the offensive and try to shift blame. I can understand why you have trouble with buyers. When everyone around you is an asshole, you know who the asshole is.