PS. She had never been overly religious in the 23 years I've been with her prior to last year when we started going to this new church because we moved. She's only started going to church more often in the past 6 months. And she goes multiple times a week, Sunday, Friday, Wednesday. When in prior years she would only go Christmas and Easter. She's saying she's going more to pray about our marriage........ But I guess the texts don't lie. On the surface its innocent and all but a divorced man texting a married woman to see if she's going to church or not or when they will see each other isn't innocent. And this wasn't just once. Been going on for about 2 months maybe? I know we had our problems but in the sat 2 months it's really been the worse. The latest texts were from a couple of days ago, again deleted from her phone. It wasn't about church and it felt a bit difference, at least to me anyways. And that was when I flew off the handle. (BTW she doesn't know I can read her texts and I don't know if I want to reveal that secret yet.) Internet, you be the judge. Am I a paranoid husband or do I have reasons to be skeptic.

M:Going to be nice this weekend. Any plans? W:have to work a bit on sat but will prob be outside as much as possible. M:I'm not sure if my son is coming home from college or not. Maybe you and I can walk to the hiking trail and you can show me all the cool stuff. W:that would be nice. There's so much 2 see if you haven't venture thru there.

There's a few more lines of jokes and such. But the jiss of it is that she seems to be making plans with a man other than her husband to go on a secluded nature walk with. And the guy for being a stout Christian as she said he is, umm why are you asking a married woman to go no a walk with you, alone. Am I paranoid here?