you seem incapable of understanding that others may see things or experience things differently to you. If you read back, you’ll notice that I have only been speaking about my own experience. my initial comment was purely about how I personally feel. my subsequent comment on confidence, again, was communicating how things are for me. At no point did I claim this applied to anyone else, yet you seem intent on telling me that my own information on how I myself feel, is wrong. I wonder why?

You’ll notice if you look up the definition of conceited that it’ll be something along the lines of “having or showing an excessively high opinion of oneself”. fits perfectly I think. stop thinking that your experience applies to everyone else, and listen for a change, instead of needlessly forcing your own world view on those around you.