this mindset is so harmful, what are you even doing...

this isn't true at all. cis people are allowed to question their genders as much as they want and still be cis. if you can't comprehend that, well idk what to tell you but it does happen. it's also a fairly common experience with a shit ton of gay, gnc or people in general who don't want to follow gender roles/aren't comfortable with them to question their gender.

people with anxiety and ocd exist too and become absolutely obssesed and terrified that they might be trans. it's a very real thing for them and that does not make them trans.

saying that everyone that questions their gender is trans is so backwards. you are putting people in boxes and telling them what they are/aren't based on your own biases. you have no right to go around policing people's genders, you are not a licensed professional. you are not in these people's minds or know them personally to understand what made them question their gender in the first place.

you are biased, therefore your opinions and solutions are biased. thats dangerous to a degree you don't even understand. not everyone that questions their gender is trans, not everyone with disphoria is trans. transitioning is not the only option for people. stop saying that, stop telling people that. even if it's a joke, you have no idea how that can affect someone who's depressed, impresionable, has ocd or literally just hates themselves. get a phd and maybe then you can diagnose people.