Like hapapapa says, frat parties are generally awful. The quality of most (not all) men in fraternities, race aside, is already low. They're usually really insecure and reactionary chest- thumping brutes with low reasoning skills who can't think ahead farther than about 6 months. Add alcohol, drugs and egos and you have a recipe for testosterone disaster. I never got along with most of them. I went to a few parties in college because 1-2 of my friends was in a frat and I always had a bad time. Always ended up having to fight off several assholes who wanted to sleep with me and were offended when I said no after I gave them zero reason to think anything was going to happen. Between that and being forced to watch my (already non-alcoholic... I wouldn't dare drink around these men) drink and purse like a hawk all night, it was just not a good time at all. I was always tense the entire time.

Nice men at frat parties tend to get harassed, based on what I've seen. There is peer pressure from the men to treat women a certain way and if you're a guy with class and respect for women, they don't like you. I think this is because your presence makes them look bad via the contrast. Women at the party will like you and trust you more and the nasty men see this and get angry. I've seen my male friends get a lot of shit for not being scumbags to women. Even when they had no sexual interest in anyone there.

As far as wmaf goes, my SO and I get about 2-3 dirty looks per month from Asian women with White SOs. We also get dirty looks and crude comments from younger (under 40) White men who don't like seeing me with him. Just this weekend in Las Vegas, a group of 4 White men pointed at us as we walked by in a hotel and yelled "why?" and my SO gave them a look which made them shut up and keep walking. This is typical for us and we expect it to continue until we are old and no longer attractive. This is what happens when you go against the status quo. Small and insecure men and women can't handle it.