Yes. It was a tough situation. It was a serious relationship. I’m not sure I even truly loved her when I think about it now. A few years after we were very serious together she developed Breast Cancer. We dated for about a year then lived together for 3 years.

Her Cancer diagnosis was hard to deal with. We were pretty young and on the list of shit to happen cancer was at the bottom.

She survived and is cancer free to this very day. She married a man about 6 months after we broke up which was surprising to everyone involved and lead to speculations that she may have had someone on the back burner. I don’t think that was the case though.

When I broke it off she wasn’t surprised. She said “I knew you’d get bored after I didn’t die”

And that really made me mad cause I was there for her through all of it and the fact she thought that way made it a lot easier to walk away. After the Cancer I thought we’d finally be able to do whatever we had planned to do.

But in reality her possible death sentences changed her and she got bored with me. She would’ve likely never have broke it off with me. But I knew it was over we she was finally able to laugh and smile again without it being wiped away a second later when she’d remember the cancer in tits…

Our time together is something I’ll never forget. We just survived through that and got bored of each other.

As far as I know she’s happy and healthy. But we’re not friends in the a traditional sense of the word.

She tried to apologize for what she said but I didn’t accept it. She meant what she said and her apology was a lie and I told her that as nicely as I could.

And we’ve not really spoke ever since. I broke up with her cause it was inevitable. But I’m not sure how bored I really was. There was just not flame left after everything.