Have you ever turned down a women when it comes to having sex? If so, how bad did she react?

A while back I was talking to this woman on a dating app. She seemed really into me and our conversation. Eventually she starts putting out hints and vibes that made me think I might know where her head was at. Me, being new to the adult dating world, got all nervous and in my head and thought the right approach was to shrug it off and act like I wasn't picking up what she was putting down. Better safe than sorry. So I basically skirted around what she was saying, acting oblivious.

Afterwards, she sent me a message saying "so are you dumb?". I got too embarrassed at that point and felt like I killed the vibe. I think I said "Huh? What do you mean?" And she responded with an eye roll emoji.

To answer your question, if you're out there...yes. I am dumb.

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