3. I finally found my birth mother... who informed me I’m a product of rape.

I finally found my birth mother... who informed me I’m a product of rape.

I was also likely a product of rape based on comments I've heard. My dad also has a record for pedophilia.

His blood runs through my veins, my face and hair are clearly from him.

He did some good things. My intelligence comes from him, and so does my quick temper that I've learned to channel.

I've made a career out of helping kids like me...and also kids like my dad. I have him to thank for that. He wasn't able or willing to master his demons, but because of his impact on me and my birth/life, many others have been able to. My mom has made it clear I was unwanted and I'm grateful for my life. It's complicated.

Definitely see a therapist. I love mine.

This batman quote has brought me comfort during hard times: " It's not who you are underneath that defines you. It's what you do that defines you."

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