My dad died when I was young and I didn’t join a terrorist organization.

if you had been born in another region and raised with another worldview, you'd be convinced of how righteous those people are, and you'd be calling them "the military" instead of terrorist organizations. Just like people in our societies are convinced of how righteous we are and purport that all of our military actions are for righteous causes, and the people who the soldiers kill (in exchange for money) are the bad guys and were threatening us.

sure, maybe we'll throw out a "sorry" if the military blows up a hospital somewhere in Iraq and kills everyone inside, but that's all.

our societies militant organizations are responsible for more deaths than these islamic terrorists could even possibly dream of causing, this is just what people do, they react violently to things in life while being convinced of their own self-righteousness, just like you're convinced of your own self-righteousness in your convictions in this post.