You weren't honest dude you fucked up in that department but it's not over with understanding how bi they are is also important there's 50/50 bi where she likes dudes equally as much as she likes girls and 60/40 bi where she likes dudes more than girls you might have had a winner dude. It's alright though guys have a lot of egos and that's something women don't have a good way to get over all that is to imagine your girl sucking another dude's dick and loving it while you're over here talking to her for 9 hours she gets off the phone and sucks up another dude. What this does is you think about it and you get a little knot in your stomach for a little then you find a way to get over it and it doesn't bother you anymore. You'll get over the hump I was like this too don't worry about it when you do explain to her why you stopped talking to her the same way you explained this post and let her know now your over it and tongue kiss her or something cause obviously she liked you more a lot if you guys not talking made her sad. If not leave that girl and get another one learn how to deal with that kinda shit and how to kiss and have sex and all that fun stuff then leave her and give your knowledge to ya girl. And don't be afraid if she has another dude it will help her relationship more and it will help you out too. It's not tit for tat dude it's not that deep