For me, I like penises. They give me orgasms. It's nice. I also like that men have a different experience from me and so I'm sort of fascinated to hear more about them and their perspective and what they think about that I wouldn't have thought about. I also like guy deordorant. The wolfthorn smell from Old Spice smells like masculine millionaire blueberries. Don't know whether the pregnancy thing is a plus or a minus. I have to work to prevent it but that also means one day I won't have to work very hard to get pregnant. So that's a toss up.

As for girls, I like boobs. And tongues. I like being in control when giving pleasure and making her eyes roll up and make her grab the bedsheets in ecstasy. I also like soft bodies. I like that I can touch a woman and it doesn't have to be foreplay or sexual or anything, it's just stroking because she is strokeable. I like feeling special when I date a girl, like I'm part of a secret club and I know something others don't (I'm femme and pretty invisible). I like sex that doesn't have a really clear beginning or end, it just sort of flows and switches. I like not feeling under the clock in terms of "I have x number of minutes before sex is going to be over so I better cum quick". I like not feeling pressure to orgasm when I am trying to make someone else orgasm. I like being touchy with a girl in public and not worrying that it's too "PDA" because girls touching girls doesn't look sexual unless you start kissing.

I like the pretty things girls wear. And I like not feeling a little bit naughtier. I like feeling more accepted in the LG community when I date a girl and I like that feeling of community. I like not having to worry about birth control. I like soft kisses on places other than my mouth. I like touching for the sake of touching. I like the curve of bodies. Rounding hips, thighs, breasts, ass, cheeks. All those lines make me want to dance or paint to express how they make me feel. There is a beauty in the way a woman moves and mesmerizes me.