Girls of Reddit, what have you always wanted to know about guys?

Take this with a grain of salt. I have eaten a fair amount of mushrooms and LSD and smoke pot. I am married, live a functional life with a stable job but enjoy philosophy, being open minded, and try to consider the subjective and objective elements of experience.

A couple years back when I was younger, I used to consider this quite a bit while tripping. I'm not really attracted to guys at a physical level, but there have been..... eh three or four guys somewhere out there that I was attracted to at a mental level. Always other artists and usually very non threatening non machismo types, not to say they were not masculine.

Anyways, of those, three were bi and one is straight. Never talked to him about it but talked to the bi friends about it once or twice. Objectively, I like sex and being bi makes sense. More available partners, more sexual experiences, and dudes have a higher libido to boot. I was sexually assaulted by a guy when I was a kid though. A dude friend of mine once consensually tried to touch me on the leg in a sexually suggestive way but it invoked immediate anxiety and panic in a "I might involuntarily punch you in the throat," type of way. That was the only time I ever tried that road.

End of the day though, with a couple more years under my belt, dudes just don't physically do it for me. Women are the most beautiful creatures ever made and if I were a girl I'm pretty positive that I would be bisexual or a lesbian. I mean this in a complimentary way, women just capture beauty in a way that men are a pale facsimile of.

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