Nope, been with my boyfriend for 3 years.
Humor and intelligence.
No. My boyfriend and I sometimes split, sometimes I cover, sometimes he does. I like to go out more, so I foot the bill more often.
Chivalry is a stupid term. I prefer politeness. And yes, I appreciate anyone, man or woman, holding open the door for me. And if someone else is at a comfortable temperature and can afford lending me a jacket, then that is very nice. But I would not ask a man to give me his jacket so I can be warm and he ends up cold.
Polyamory is fine if it works for you. I wouldn’t. I bond very strongly to one other person and have always been a close-circle-of-few-friends person. It’s important that my partner and I be each other’s only lovers.
Morally no, but I support it being legal. Nope, it’s not our place to take away someone else’s life. Yes, I support legalization of pretty much all drugs; your body, your choice.
I would identify as feminist. One major flaw is that feminism does focus on Western women’s issues, which I would say are not as bad as some women in Africa or the Middle East.
Married, yes. Children, possibly.
I literally could not care less. I’d guess she’s just a human being with complex emotions and motivations and it’s not my place to judge her.
Physically? Depends on the person. I’ve seen fat women rock it and fat women who don’t carry it well. Same for men.
Nope. I’d be bored. I’m also getting my degree for a reason.
I know that the idea of dealing with him during a custody battle is scary, but your children deserve to have you in their lives. Please reconsider leaving them.
Why? If it’s for good reasons and something she actively wants, I don’t have a problem. I would want her to be safe.
Some women don’t have what it takes. Some do. I do think it’s possible the women who don’t only are passed over because there are higher standards for them versus for men. I go to university, and no.
By my boyfriend, sure. I don’t mind that. If a man whistles at me on the street, I feel good about myself but creeped out by him, and I want to get as far away from him as possible. The first time I got wolf whistled I was 13 and I was happy, but looking back… what a creep!
MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION - Do you think women are making any mistakes in modern relationships? What kind of mistakes? Do you think women nowadays are better than they used to be 100 years ago?
I think people make the same mistake, and that is wanting a relationship. It’s okay to feel lonely, but I see too often that people’s standards are dreadfully low, so they date the first person who will date them just so they can have a boyfriend or girlfriend. You should not be chasing a relationship, but a person. I think women are not better or worse, and same goes for people. Relationships are different, which means the mistakes that can be made are different but no better or worse than the mistakes 100 years ago.