First thing you have to adjust is the idea is that you have “bad luck.” There is no such thing as bad luck, only bad choices. Next you have to do a better vetting process in the girls you date. Do some background when you’ve first met them - via whatever method you meet. The vetting must include: 1. Make sure she has at least a bachelors degree. Art History doesn’t count. A masters is even better 2. Check what job she does. Make sure it’s a career that makes decent money 3. Find out if she’s close with her family 4. Guestimate how much she wastes on hair and makeup and correlate that with how much she probably makes in her stated profession 5. Check for signs of cosmetic surgery