How to deal with partner always ordering fast food for both of us?

It's sabotage

I used to be on the border between overweight and obese and now I'm on the high side of normal. My wife used to be in the middle of normal and is now on the low side of obese.

When I decided I wanted to finally be healthier, she ended up making all sorts of comments (as jokes according to her) and stocking up on my kryptonite (fried potato things) that tried to sabotage me. I think it was more due to the fact that seeing me get healthier and losing weight made her more self-conscious of her own body and the fact she wasn't wanting to put in the work to lose weight and get healthier. After 6 months I needed to forcefully tell her to stop. I still feel less connected to her because of that.

/r/loseit Thread