How do I go forward?

He may not have the humility to admit that despite loving you: he's not strong enough to give you what you need - but he has the bravery to open up a dialogue.

If you can be strong enough to endure your baseline, new love may find you - love that can be there for you without resenting you, and without you feeling guilt.

We sometimes fall - I'm right there with you, presently wearing a wedding ring I can't fall asleep not wearing, but have to take it off when I leave the house.

Its gonna hurt - but always be as great as you were to deal with your emotional response. You're luckily, and can put your strongest foot forward when having that talk. Just don't forget to listen!

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