How Nmom reacts on Facebook vs. how she actually reacts in real life

Oh yes, because it's all about their reputation and public appearance. It's just an act. Before, NC, my Nmom did things like this too. Ever since I was a toddler, I was told I would never amount to anything, was a mistake and was basically treated like garbage daily yet on her FB page, she has things like 'All my children are a gift from god' ' I am a proud mom and my kids are my pride and joy!' Etc etc. She never once in my life said she loved me or was proud of me. That was all for the public.

Also, she was witnessed a lady at the park beat her small son and got in between them and called the cops, screaming about how wrong it is to beat children. She even had to go to court as a witness where she apparently took the stand and even forced herself to cry because she "couldn't sleep from having seen a woman hitting her kids with such cruelty" etc This coming from a lady who starved me,, helped molest me, beat me daily and abused me every day until I escaped and never looked back. N's know they're horrible, that's why they need to fake it to the public so strongly.

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