Okay, this post is so far from reality that it's pretty scary. There is nothing wrong with wanting your partner to be a virgin. That is your preference and it is completely fine. However, the reasons OP lists for wanting a virgin gf is pretty fucking absurd. If your partner is not a virgin, that does not mean they won't love you or give you "starfish sex in preparation for officially making your relationship completely sexless." Honestly, I don't even get the logic behind that. If anything, not being a virgin would mean having more sexual experience and generally, less "starfish sex" (obviously there are exceptions).

To argue that girls who have had sex are more likely to fantasize about other men and "Chads" than girls who are virgins is also false. Girls fantasizing about men is a pretty common thing, virgin or not. Just because a virgin girl won't have a previous partner to think about during sex does not mean she won't think about a guy at all. For all you know, she could fantasize about her celebrity crush or a guy she had a thing for. Being a virgin does not guarantee that she will not think about "Chads."

The fact that you claim getting a non virgin gf is the "best incels can get" just shows how removed you are from reality, OP. A non-virgin gf is not the worst thing there is. If anything, her being sexually experienced can actually HELP in that she can at least guide you and liven the bedroom. By assuming that the sex wont be good because she won't ever "do all the crazy stuff she did with her ex" is just another reason to not give someone a chance and attribute your lack of success to ludicrous reasons like not being born a genetic god. Honestly, if you are going to write something off such as having a non-virgin, do it for legitimate reasons. Its okay to want your partner to be a virgin. It's not okay to not give virgins a chance for the reasons that this post mentions.