It depends on the topics. I realized rape, and anything to do with children is directly "you are guilty"

I was accused by someone with whom i have written when I was a teen (under 18) of child pornography.

This was a mess by that person and whole circle which I got shaken up in. It took one fucking year for them to finally realize I am not guilty. But even then they didn't want to admit it and just said "yeah, spend this small amount to charity and you are fine"

Like, the fuk? Did I really need to pay 1k to a lawyer so that you can finally tell me I should pay 200bucks to charity?

But yeah, if i had told anybody during this one year what was going on I would have basically no evidence to show them that I got messed up in something I didn't do and on reddit this would have been directly "you fucking [...]"