I always wanna talk things out and communicate but during fights he almost always reacts in complete anger and ends up calling me names, blocking me (causing me huge stress and making me extremely upset), threatening to break up with me and over all saying mean things about me like how I don’t hit the spot anymore.

When he’s really mad he too will call me names and say mean things about my appearance like calling me saggy and ugly. The way I’m writing all of this honestly makes him seem like the most horrible person in the world BUT he genuinely is sooooo so sweet and loving when we aren’t fighting.

But when we are fighting it’s like I’m a stranger to him and he’ll say whatever he feels like no matter if it hurts me or not whereas even in our biggest fights I’ll just ignore him or cry I’d never call him these type of names... idk I’m so conflicted because really when things are good and we aren’t fighting he’s amazing to me:(