I'm talking about picking and choosing when to use that excuse.

Conservatives said the same thing about protesters being gassed by the police, "If the protesters just stayed home there would be no problems. Full stop."

Anti-maskers say this about mask policies "If people are so afraid of covid that I have to swear a mask, they should just stay home. Full stop"

and Liberals are now saying this about Kyle Rittenhouse "If he would have just stayed home, no one would have been shot. Full stop"

i mean it's a slippery slope that the same logic can be applied and used against you and that it's hypocritical to say "Just stay home" in this situation but not all the others.