yep personally I prefer a man like my ex that just says 'I respect women', has a good relationship with his sisters/mother etc, and replicates that behaviour with me. Even then, its dependent on him continuously showing that.

If a man isn't a mommys boy, but he still has a tough, loving smart mother, it shows. He will treat you with respect .

I stay far away from men who are hard left liberals and claim they are feminist. Granted I don't meet many. But I also stay away from the ones who only care about the 'manspreading chair woman' as opposed to the persistent degradation of women feminists constantly talk about. Those type are likely to be dim.

This guy was fully mansplaining and eventually when he spat his dummy out the next day he called me sexist. LOL COS I wouldn't fuck him on the first date!! Cos I wasn't stroking his ego enough on the first meet. He just confirmed my suspicions not respecting my boundaries. Doesn't want to fuck me straight away = sexist. Ok mr fragile ego, sounds like you don't like women.

He even said 'some women are sexist, some women were against women voting'..........talk about showing up his complete utter lack of understanding of internalised miosgyny aka pick me's. Pick me's will shit on womens rights in a hot minute, if they think its going to get them mens attention/validation quicker. They are selfish and dim lol. You can tell he was only claiming to be a feminist for selfish purposes aka 'I won't judge if you sleep with me right now'...even tho I didn't want to.

Grown ass men like him, over the age of 30, know how to read womens signals, their discomfort. They just ignore it, cos they are just their to fuck you because they are depraved.

Honestly if you would of seen the butthurt manipulative essays he was sending me after ONE date, I dodged a huge bullet.