I've always had wonderful/beautiful women in my life. The key is to listen to them. Give a shit what theyre saying and remember it. Be interested who they are and what theyve been through. Get to know them. Bench your need for sex and physical contact. If they can tell thats what you want, they'll hold it back from you. And they should, because they can see through your motives. If you dont want sex or physicality and you focus on enjoying their company and getting to knoe them, they'll be super excited to get physical with you once youve proved that to them.

Its not that difficult.. People want you to like them for who they are. Be kind and be interested.

If you want a lot, you'll receive nothing. If you want nothing, you'll receive a lot.