Why do men keep hurting me emotionally?

That's kind of really a pessimistic view point to to take...no offence. I don't think he would lie about such an issue that way...and to be completely honest; I did have a small fear that he did have a gf towards the end but never said anything.

He never expressed anything about not wanting to help. And not every hang out was sad and depressing, we also had lot of fun times. I got the feeling he really liked me and he flirted with me all throughout. I wrote a bit more about our interactions in my other comments.

And it's not also like we hung out consistently. There were many times where we'd both get busy and wouldn't talk to each other for a while. I didn't complain to him constantly; he just knew of problems and listened oftentimes which I really appreciated. So I sincerely doubt he got tired of me that way...he could have always put an end to it otherwise, and said he didn't want to have our we finished our work multiple times, but always made the decision to stay.

As I said in my other comments, I definitely felt there was something more from how he looked at and spoke to me.

I'm also pretty sure he did have a gf at the time...he could have obtained her in the 3 month period we knew each other but I doubt it. I always got the feeling something was holding him back from asking me out. I mentioned this situation to my friend and she said based on what I told her that the existence of his gf was holding him back. Otherwise I am so sure he would have from the get go.

Sorry for all the type; that's really all the extra context behind the situation.

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