Been single for about 5 years after, what I would consider, an easy breakup. There was no arguments or yelling when it happened, we just decided we shouldn't be together. It felt like a huge waste of time from that point to me and I haven't had the drive to try again. So I've been working on myself and I figure if someone is interested, I'll let them come too me. Till then, it's me time. I'm in no hurry. Still young, and don't want kids till I'm financially stable. I'm too worried about making progression and I'm scared of getting in a relationship and then being too busy for one or the other. I'm kind of an all or nothing person. Though having someone to come home to would be nice sometimes.