Good wife - not controlling, overbearing, doesn't nag at you all the time. She's not a bossy bitch and she doesn't have too many high demands financially. She's the peace in your life and she shows you respect when she communicates with you. She needs to be able or capable of doing household duties. When I say able I mean not lazy and capable I mean she does a good job of them and no half assing anything. She should be able to cook some good food too. Also a woman who is willing to compromise and always wants her own way. Someone that you are attracted to and vice versa.

Turn off - bossy bitch, control freak, lazy, nags at you all the time. In short the opposite of all the above. If shes a feminist shes a nightmare. If shes fat then that means she can't look after herself that means she won't be able to look after you. When on a first date see how she talks to service workers that's probably how she will talk to you after 6 months when the honeymoon period is over. Not be able to cook or clean. Height queen. Girls who like to party and go out to the club every week. If shes your wife and shes doing this every week shes probably a woodpecker for some other guy because shes more capable of cheating on you around other men especially when they've had a few drinks in them and maybe even drugs.

I can keep going to be honest but I'll stop there.