Sounds like you just have a misconception of the sign of Cancer as some sort of scared, wishy-washy pushover, which simply isn’t the case. The internet is full of these kinds of stereotypes, painting Scorpio as an evil sex demon full of secrets, Leo as an unabashed diva, Gemini as a two-faced liar. This isn’t how astrology works.

To give you a better idea of Cancer, it’s a Cardinal sign. This means it’s a sign that initiates. It confronts, something you mentioned you love doing in another comment. It’s extremely protective of themselves, their environments, and their loved ones, going to extreme measures if it feels vulnerable or threatened. The sign is literally a crab with pinchers. An unfortunate archetype of the unevolved Cancerian is George W. Bush, who created the Department of Homeland Security and invaded Afghanistan and Iraq.

At any rate, looks like you were born around 2000. You’re 22. You’re going to grow and change, a lot, and you’ll realize that there’s nothing weak or pathetic about being able to care for others, fortify and protect your loved ones, and cook them a decent meal.