Got a boyfriend just like that. After two years of distance relationship, I moved in the city near where he lived, and even so, I had to do every trip between my place and his place (I was younger, without a car, he has a driver license and a car). After four years almost five of a relationship, when things got hard for me in my studies, I decided to not do the first step, not send the first message anymore, since I’ve been doing it for all those years at this point, and decided to not go see him until he moves himself to him.

Good god, in a period of 4 months, we saw each other twice and the third time was when he actually came down to deny I was breaking up with him.

This is telling A LOT more than you think about him and how he cares about you. I’d break up instantly.