Everyone here is picking apart your bf and his mistakes but they are not criticizing you for what you did wrong. YOU physically assaulted him first, verbally abused him, and kept instigating.

It takes 2 to tango. If you are going to get physical with someone, be prepared for the same in return. It’s 2019 and everyone is screaming about equality. This type of baggage comes with it. If you hit someone, be ready for what comes next. I’m not condoning violence, I think it’s wrong for a man to hit a woman. And I also think it’s wrong for a woman to hit a man.

He fucked up by being over-controlling, and abusing you back. He needs to learn to not give a fuck about what you wear because he already has you. It’s something he will learn over time.

You two seem perfect for each other.