Ya literally. Thinking about it that way so puts it in perspective. I would literally NEVER trust a man who tells me that they have vasectomy. I would still protect myself even if thought they were trust worthy. Men always make birth control the woman’s responsibility and then accuse her of “trapping” him when the birth control fails, even though they are often the one who insists on having sex without a condom because it “feels better”. Of course there are many responsible men who use condoms. But there is definitely a culture of expecting women to be responsible for birth control. Let’s just hope OP takes responsibility for the baby and doesn’t just abandon him Emory