My mother was in control of finances and now I’m 80k in debt

Similar story from me, when my early 20’s, mom registered the family business on my name. When I finished university, I found the company is bankrupt and I have 350k debt. I had spent my youth (25-35 yo) , worked everywhere end every job, supplying home’s money (full family budget) + baby brother’s education costs (he had university bachelor + MBA ) ,other everything family related cots and lowering the debt to 125k. Do not forget there is internet rate still applies to that debt in those 10 year. I am 35 now, no certain job (because debt collectors still pursuing me), can’t have a career because %25 of my salary will be seized -employers don’t like this - no car, no bank account, no relationship (thank god) and no hope for future. Do you think my family is grateful to me? Nope, mom said you’re the man of the family (dad passed away when I was child) it is your duty. Brother said, what did you do for me...

Lessons should be learned those who read this, be selfish, live only for yourselves. Yes, they will be upset to you, but still Its your life.. Thanks for reading.

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