"I want my new dryer TODAY!"

Oh jeez. TBH I've never really considered my Mom an N, I just like reading peoples stories/complaints. But this reminds me of when her washer broke and we got a new one, I had to be the one to be home for when it delivered (I rent an apartment in her basement). And it never came. And she called around yelling at everyone. No one was hurt or anything, not sure why it didn't come, but they delivered it the next day. So I got to wait around for that.

But then once they got here, they refused to put it in the part of the basement where it needed to go, cause they'd have to lift it up three steps and then down two (basement is designed fucking stupidly). So I just get them to leave it by the door, cause what else am I supposed to do?

Well apparently I made the wrong choice, Mom comes home and starts SCREAMING at me, WHY THE FUCK IS THE WASHER HERE WHY DIDN'T YOU GET THEM TO PUT IT IN (other location that would make it HARDER to get into the basement) THAT MAKES MORE SENSE! and just berates the hell out of me for not DEMANDING they put it in that part of the basement and for getting them to put it in the 'most stupid place possible'

Now I was three months pregnant at the time, and just burst into tears at her literally screaming at me over this stupid, STUPID thing. "Why are you yelling at ME, they couldn't do it, they didn't have to, and it makes more sense to bring it in this way than the other way, and it's no big deal it's just a washer chill out".

Oh but does she address what I'm saying? Of course not, just "WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU CRYING AND GETTING UPSET NOW?????" "CAUSE YOU'RE SCREAMING AT ME OVER LITERALLY NOTHING" then, get this, she says, still literally screaming at me "I AM NOT SCREAMING AT YOU AT ALL YOU'RE OVERREACTING WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?"

"I'M PREGNANT AND SENSITIVE AND AGAIN YOU ARE YELLING AT ME OVER THE MOST STUPID THING EVER THAT IS NOT A BIG FUCKING DEAL NOW GET OUT OF MY APARTMENT"

I literally rent a basement apartment from her. I pay rent. I SHOULD have tenants rights and the ability to kick her out of my part of the house whenever I please. BUT NOPE. She just starts yelling more about how I'm being sensitive and "WHATS WRONG WITH YOU" repeatedly. So I just ignore her and go to my bedroom and get in bed (I was napping before she started SCREAMING at me, I've had insomnia since the first trimester), She follows me and asks "what the fuck is wrong with you" again, and then leaves when I don't answer.

I don't know, maybe my mom is a stupid crazy fucking bitch! Maybe that's whats wrong with me! She's honestly wonderful most of the time, but sometimes she is so fucking stupid and crazy.

PS I was right, my BF and her BF moved the washer, and they both agreed I made the right choice in where to put it. Did she apologize for overreacting and screaming at me? of course not.

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