My STBXH moved in with his AP before he even asked for a divorce...

  1. Read chump lady blog. Therapy to relate to others who have gone through it all.
  2. My spouse left me for an online connection after 10 years. They met once, he quit his job, ghosts me and moves 1000 miles away. Hopefully no kids. Block everything. He will splash the new relationship all over social media. Also watch out for smear campaign. I was accused of physical abuses and other things. It was going on well before D day. I lost a few friends but I also gained respect from many on how I handled it all.
  3. Take the high road. Pick your ass up. Build a new life. New home. New friends. New job. New city. That’s what I did 3 years ago and it’s allowed moving on so much easier.
  4. This is a reflection on them. Not you. Coward. Liar. Thief. All there. Remind yourself that. Don’t be jealous of AP. They’re a downgrade allowing this crap. You were to strong and so they had to find a new Supply/victim who will put up with the games.
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