I enjoy a lot of them don't get me wrong it's why I found difficulty in seeking help I have found that my sexual desires are very unique and can be misunderstood and he does have great after care.. I enjoy pushing new boundaries. But I have to heal just like a sore sexworker after a gangbang. But then he would want to do it again, a couple hours later and then the next day and the next.. the touches don't change.. I have to address it for it to change and it can become a huge conflict.... he tries to be soft I believe a good portion of the time especially as the years have gone on. But the outburst of being rejected never change. How do I communicate to a sex addict that he can't have sex at that the best way for him not to feel ashamed of wanting what he desires. He doesn't cheat, he doesn't spend loads of money on porn. We are very commutative and open with each other.