3. I’ve (19m) just stumbled into this subreddit and I’m quite curious about it....

I’ve (19m) just stumbled into this subreddit and I’m quite curious about it. I don’t understand why you girls don’t want your SOs watching porn or even beating their meat. If anyone would like to inform me about their person case or just in general why you don’t approve I’d like to hear it.

It made me feel like I could never measure up or please him sexually compared to porn.

I’m not a hairless, D cup, DTF wet & ready after 30 seconds woman gagging for it and wanting rough sex, rim jobs, and a MMF 3some every weekend. I’m also not a pre-op trans women begging for anal sex. I’m not a femboy with a bussy waiting for daddy to fuck my hole. I’m not a trans escort or a bi guy looking to get off on jerkmate or chaturbate.

Ultimately its an escalation thing that makes a partner feel like shit, destroys their self-esteem, and the sex, when it does happen, is bad. It rots normal brain pathways linking regular sex with arousal & dopamine. Imagine fucking someone with a blank stare who jackhammers you only to not finish, and then go soft in his own attempt to jerk himself & get hard again.

Yeah porn was no problem for me & my partner - I don’t get it either!

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