Thank you. I know she's free to do what she wants to I'm not saying that she has to be there with us but it's more of a thing like if her family is over I'm going to dedicate my time to them while there I'm my house. They're my guest and in laws and I'd like to spend time with them even if we're bored or uninterested. If I want to do something that doesn't involve them I'd excuse my self out. If I just simply hide in a different room while I'm on my phone and they can see me doesn't that send a bad message to them? I feel like if was to do that they'd probably think why is he over there and who is he talking to or texting? I feel like they'd suspect me.. does that make sense..??