Please how can I (26f) stop stirring things and ruining every thing?

I’m not looking for someone to make me happy. I’m happy. I make myself and I’m proud of myself for it. I’ve been in abusive relationships years ago and was always told I’m not worthy to be taken on dates and etc.

I’ve been doing that and working on myself ever since! And freaking do what I want and now I’m about to leave town to take myself out for the day somewhere in nature. Yes this will be a full and awesome date I’m taking myself on and it will end with a cute meal

I’ve been doing this for 5 years by the way. I’m also tired of being told a man will come into your life when you least expect it and when you focus on yourself. I’ve been doing this for 5 years :) :) :)

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