I've had lots of sex. I started having sex that I did not enjoy very much because it was something I could do to piss off my parents but after around 19-20 I started rapidly losing interest in sexual relationships. Still had long term monogamous relationships for the next decade and learned more than a few sex tricks along the way. So, for example, I can make myself orgasm while having penetrative sex.

How does it feel? Neutral to painful if something isn't going right. Afterwards kind of unfulfilling. Once six years ago I had some really amazing sex that I still remember. Usually I zone out or try not to focus on the bits I don't like. Right now I have a couple of partners who seem pretty game to experiment with me while respecting my boundaries.

But I thought this thread was about asexual sex experiences and I was going to post about this one dude I've been messing with but not having sex with (he's got something going on with him as well, maybe) and it turns out that I get really turned on when I'm very confident there's not going to be sex in my future. Fucking confusing.