Take advice from people on the internet with a grain of salt, honestly. Most of the time, they are already miserable in their own lives and are projecting. Also, if you come here and write an AITA most assholes get very offended. I read both and the saying in relationship advice has always been "delete Facebook, lawyer up, and get fit?" i am surprised with how many people will say "divorce!" without saying "counseling".

AITA is pretty funny sometimes. Sometimes it just feels like people are so self absorbed, how would they not even know they are the assholes or try to defend their shitty behavior. There are some good stories though where the person is definitely innocent and the other person is the asshole.