Anything remotely related to family weddings is very had for me. My temple cult "wedding" was a mind-fuck with zero family members or best friends in attendance.
I love that my brothers are having nice weddings that include everyone they want, but it stings. They put my husband and I through hell up until and through our wedding, disrespected us on a deep level for years... and we have absolutely not done that to them or their SO. We have absolutely showered the fuck out of them so that they DON'T have to experience what we went through, etc.
The whole invite thing has carried over though...and though we have respected them, they are all letting us have it when it comes to their wedding since they couldn't see ours. I guess it's fair, but it's also fucked up.